Weekends mornings are great for beach and sand play.
Today Alaric shown the stubborn side of his again.
It reminded me of him when he was only barely a year old, I scolded him when he did wrong. He held his tears and did not cry. Shown me the face like he was maligned and yet put on a strong front, other babies would have already wailed. But he only shed a tear at he corner of his eyes.
He was stubborn again today, 2 times within a night.
The first incident was when I insisted that he says "No beating" as he was sharing that he was a naughty boy in school because he beat beat. I requested many times to say "No beating" and also scolded him that what he did was wrong. He simply refuse to say it and just kept quiet and hold back his tears as you can see he is already teary. He just ignore whatever I said.
Daddy heard our conversation and came in. Told him nicely that it's okay and asked him to say sorry and hug mummy. And he responded to daddy's request and hug and when I ask him to say no beating nicely, he said it!!
He is just unhappy that I primanded him that way and felt sad that I treated him so.
This is not the end, he didn't sleep after one hour on bed. I was so fed up as he had been zzz late and waking late and making me late for work. I scolded him, removed his pacifier and he was playing with it and not taking it properly. Smacked his butt telling him to sleep as i waited for an hour already.
He refuse to close his eyes to sleep when I asked him to. I even threaten to walked out of room and he simply shown me attitude by not responding to my actions. Even when I ask him to come to me so I can speak to him nicely, he simply ignored me. It was until a while that he stayed motionless on bed, like protesting with me, then he willing to come to me.
This son of mine is really stubborn with a character and attitude. I really need to handle him with more love if not I really can see that he will be leaded astray.
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