I am a Venusian

Quoted from Man are from Mars, Woman are from Venus.
"For a Venusian, the way to feel better is to talk. So many woman today, are putting on Martian suits, working and not getting their emotional needs met during the day. Now, more than anytime in history, woman need to talk in order to find balance and wholeness. "

But I am one weird Venusian whom had been conditioned to stop talking, to clam up so there will be lesser issues and conflicts. I find talking is a hassle and problem causing.

Maybe that's why I can never find balance and wholeness. I don't know how to talk anymore.